The most important thing for you is not to be seen as a control freak.
Nobody must know that you sometimes get up in the night to clean up the drop of honey you saw fall on to the carpet earlier that day.
Your fear of other people finding out is stronger than your obsession.
When everyone else heads off for a nap, your quest begins as, with the dexterity of a surgeon and the stealth of a burglar, you tidy and sort what other people have unconsciously taken the liberty of moving.
You are the masked keeper-of-order, saving the poor abandoned shoe in the middle of the lounge. Your cause is noble and you don't even take any credit!