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Jessica's story - 2 girls and 1 guy

 

Jessica*, 37, marketing director from Cambridge

My boyfriend Alan and I often discussed our fantasies and we agreed on making one of them a reality: a threesome.

I didn't want to have one with a second man; the idea scared me, it seemed too rough physically. So we decided to give it a go with another woman. I'm not a lesbian but the idea had always turned me on.

To prevent any awkwardness or jealousy, we agreed to find someone who we'd never see again. We registered on a specialist threesomes website and we selected the ideal candidate. It was important that both of us liked her but I didn't want her to be as pretty as me - I know that sounds ridiculous but I didn't want feel like I was competing with her!

We arranged to meet in a hotel room because it was out of the question for me to do it in the intimacy of our own home. We didn't waste time pretending to get to know each other and she started things off by undressing and touching me.

With great delight, I let her carry on, and my husband was initially quite happy just watching us. After a while he joined in and much to my surprise, he wasn't all over her! He just focused on me, like she did... and I absolutely loved it!
After-effect
When she was leaving, she asked me: "It was just for your benefit, right?"

Apparently so!

For a while, this "lesbian" experience troubled me but more than anything, I was reassured and surprised to see that my husband wasn't attracted to the other woman in the end! We've never wanted to repeat the experience since but as a one off, it was great.




  
  

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