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The New Dating App For Threesomes. Just What We’ve All Been Waiting For

Maria Bell
by Maria Bell Published on February 25, 2014

Just when we thought all dating apps were the same, out comes a new one to expand our minds and number of bedmates. Touted as the Tinder for threesomes, 3nder (pronounced ‘threen-der’ – very creative) allows you to be matched with not one but two new partners. Nice.

If you think Plenty of Fish, OK Cupid and Tinder are one big dating snooze, this could be the sex-fest app for you. According to the website, 3nder is for “all swingers, newbies, curious and experienced” who are “discriminated by society in the same way gay people were 15 years ago.”

​As dating apps go, it’s the same matching process as all the others. You set up a profile, give the same old spiel about your great sense of humor and above average looks and select what kind of relationship you’re after. (Though we predict this might be a bit of a gray area.)

Where it differs is that you can join as a couple looking for someone extra or a single person looking to match with an experienced couple. You can't join looking for two other horny singles looking for a good time – yet.

The website says its goal is to “evolve our social acceptance” of all the little things that get us humans off. Well hear, hear. However, if you’re looking for a threesome, you better know what you’re getting into because that stuff can get pretty messed up, pretty quickly. It's not always the best way to spice up your sex life.

For all those wishing to keep their private lives private, unlike Tinder you can choose to keep your identity hidden from friends and family.

All sounds good so far but there is some bad news. The app, developed by AngelList is still in the development stages so there might be a few months ‘til your first ménage a trois yet.

Tempted to join? Or are you going to steer clear? Join the debate by tweeting us @wewomenUSA

by Maria Bell