How to flirt with a guy over text
  
Keep it short and sweet
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Keep it short and sweet


Don't send an eight page essay, you don't want to send your guy to sleep! Instead, keep it short and snappy, that way you'll show him how sexy and fun you can be in just a few characters.

"There's no need for long, rambling messages," says James. "Save the long conversations for when you're together."

Kate's also a fan of the short message: "Texts should be tantalizingly brief. Be mysterious. If he wants more, he can call you."

Remember to keep those texts upbeat and positive too. When your guy asks how your day was, he doesn't really want to hear about why you're new boss is so annoying or how long it took you to get into work. 

"Tell them about how exciting your life is, rather than how bored, tired and fed up you are. That way they'll want to be a part of it too," says James.



Love & Sex Editor
08/04/2012
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