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Fellatio: How to please your man

Fellatio: How to please your man

 

No butts...

If you want to blow his mind then you're going to have to do a little exploring - to discover the male G-spot (aka the prostate) located a short way up his anus.

Is your man up for some bum fun? © Goodshoot
Is your man up for some bum fun? © Goodshoot

Yep. The prostate is the place to go if you want him to blow his load (especially handy if you want a shortcut - a slip of the finger should finish him off pretty quickly).

To master the art of stimulating his prostate, firstly it's a good idea to check he's ok for you to go back there.

Then proceed with caution and equip yourself with this vital information...

Limber up 

Don't even think about going back there unless you have got a well lubed finger ready. And if you're a girl who likes long talons, you'll have to chop your long nails or find a sex toy to do the probing for you. Remember nails are not welcome anywhere near the prostate.

That's the spot

The prostate is the male equivalent to our x-rated fun button - aka, the G-spot. The idea is to massage his prostate with gentle pressure but you'll have to find it first.

Insert your finger 3 inches into his anus and then stroking toward the front of the body through the walls of the rectum. The prostate is a firm bulge about the size of a walnut and you know you’ve found it when he groans with pleasure...

How about no?

Ok ok, we know, it's a bit gross, it's his bum hole. So if slipping a finger inside is a no-no, you could try stimulating his prostate indirectly by firmly massaging the perineum, the area between the ball sack and the anus. But don't be too rough - it's pretty sensitive there too!

Toy time

So if you discover that his prostate is the new place to be, then you might want to think about investing in some toys - from anal beads to butt plugs to anal massagers there's a whole world of bum fun to discover. Check out Sh! for their range of adult toys.



Would you ever stimulate his G-spot?
Ew - no way!
I could give it a go!
Yeah baby!

  
  

Love & Sex Editor
01/01/2011
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