Understanding erotic dreams
  
Meaning and analysis of erotic dreams about homosexuality
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Meaning and analysis of erotic dreams about homosexuality


The psychologist's analysis

> Key symbols:
- The lack of a window represents all that's hidden from looks of other people.
- The dwarf, who is smaller and below oneself.
- The boss, who is bigger and above oneself.
> Meaning: Nathalie sees sex as a struggle between the dominated and the dominator. Her position isn't very clear though and it evolves throughout the dream. She is initially faced with a dwarf who, in her eyes, most probably represents all of the male sex, which she can have control over. He massages her and provides her with a feeling of pleasure: she is in a position of strength.

Then, her boss whom she can't stand in real life, steps in and she must give her a massage. But once again, her sexuality is a bit ambiguous since she combines pleasure and pain (the pinching which she inflicts on her boss). This puts her back in control, until her boss kisses her and regains the upper hand.
> What can she do? It's not a dream that signifies Nathalie's lesbian desires for her boss. Like everyone, she has homosexual urges but dreams are the exact opposite to expressions of desire. Nathalie should however realize that she struggles to establish equal relationships with people. She needs to work more on her need to organize human relationships into hierarchies.


Love & Sex Editor
08/27/2012
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