Living in this fast
-paced world it's all too easy to get ahead of yourself with the start of a new relationship.
People have a tendency to throw themselves into something new with all their energy and a few months down the line once the lusty haze has faded they realize that there is nothing 'real' there.
In the Queen's case she initially got to know Philip through a slow process of letter-writing allowing them to build a firm friendship as a base.
We know that this is pretty unrealistic in our modern lives but Jenni advises that a slower approach can be better for a substantial relationship.